"What was the saddest day of your life?" She looked back at me after posing the question, eager to hear my reply. I wonder if she realized what a depressing conversation starter that was, or if it was just a normal topic in her life. Without much time to think about it nothing really came to my mind, at least nothing that compared to what I knew of her story. She's experienced more sad days in her short 12 or 13 years than anyone should ever have to. And now all she wanted was someone with a listening ear to ask her that question in return.
Children of Promise Ministries is a Christian foster care organization who places orphans and vulnerable children into Christian foster families. Most all of their kids have stories like this girl, including abandonment, abuse, neglect, or absentee parents. The ministry helps provide for their physical needs, education, and perhaps most importantly, a loving family. I've been working with this ministry in Namibia since 2004, so over the last 10 years I've watched many of these kids grow from toddlers to teenagers.

Most of their families live either in Rehoboth (about an hour south of Windhoek) or in the small mining town of Arandis. To get to Arandis from Windhoek, you hop on the main paved highway and drive for about 3 hours as the towns you pass through get smaller and smaller. The vegetation along the road turns from trees to shrubs to grass until finally there's nothing but rocks and sand and desert as far as you can see. And that's where you find Arandis. This was a town originally build for the workers at the nearby uranium mine, but since housing was inexpensive it seemed to be a good location for Children of Promise to set up one of their headquarters. Now they have a few different homes with foster families dotted throughout the community. Realizing the need for quality education for their children, they founded a private school, Talitha Kumi Christian Academy, which is now accredited by the government and runs from preschool through grade 7.

Back in 2008, I lived in Arandis for almost 4 months teaching Bible classes at Talitha Kumi, helping lead Bible studies at the public high school, getting involved with worship and youth ministry at a local church, and trying to provide a good male role model for these kids. Then I would see them about once a year when I would help lead teams over there. But last weekend I made my first debut in Arandis as a resident of Namibia and it was exciting to tell them I was now living in Windhoek. We took plenty of walks around town, made photos of the sunset and the stars, and played lots of Skip-Bo! It was great to be back with them again. And now that I'm only 3 hours away I hope to go much more often.